Wednesday, May 7, 2008

dissatisfaction

Now that I have removed the top reasons for why women seek men, do I need someone in my life?

I provide for myself financially and expect to live well on my own efforts.

I don't need the social confirmation. Many women feel social pressures to marry, but not this woman. In fact, I quite enjoy my single status.

Even companionship. I enjoy the company of many friends and can always count on my outgoing personality to find partners in crime. L and I were able to travel to a foreign country together b/c I followed her schedule and planned every last detail.

As I grow older, I suspect that work and community involvement will take up more energy. Even self improvement is very fulfilling.

These musings led to a feeling that being with C could be dissatisfying down the road.

Of course, there is love. I haven't fallen in love in so long that I have forgotten that being in love is quite wonderful. Still, I know that love does not a partnership make. Partnerships and marriages require compatibility.

Are C and I destined?

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