to love is to let go

Caught up with some friends who didn't know about the last breakup or the new man in my life. The transition has been quiet because I finally learned how to let life happen naturally.

Dating is now much easier for me than before because I expect little from the men in my life. I can enjoy a person's company when they are meant to be in my life, and I can let go of that person when we no longer share the destiny to be together.

It's hard at times to let go of that connection, but I always trust my gut to guide me as to what to do next, especially when it comes to relationships.

More than ever, I am clear about who I am and where I am going. Stayed tuned for more interesting development...

history in the making

Just listened to Obama's speech as he embarks on his presidency. The election confirms my belief that one must rise and meet one's destiny.

For me, that destiny is doing less right now.

I am so grateful for this time of disengagement. By just taking it easy, a lot of things have happened naturally and easily, from relationships to health, I feel lucky to have the opportunity to refocus on what's truly important.

Work will happen in due time. For now, it's time with the people who matter.