new practice

Much of this new phase of my life has to do with the practice of letting go. There is a certain respect for letting things happen as they may.

When I tell people that I believe in fate, rejection is a common reaction. The sense that we don't completely control our lives make people uncomfortable.

Acceptance of fate does not mean laziness or lack of effort. Letting go is the confidence that everything will work out. Having that belief allows me to take big risks and to put my best effort forward.

This new belief allows me to negate all fears. It feels so wonderful to navigate through life without any fears or worries. To feel this sense of liberation!

Surprisingly, there is also a sense of responsibility because I can be purposeful rather than getting caught up in the details or the petty emotional responses.

It is also isolating because so few people are at this place of calm and acceptance. Still, I am grateful for being at this place.

how to find love

One thing I appreciate about dating is honing my theories about love every time I try to fall in love, regardless of the actual experience or the outcome.

Over time, I have found universal rules.

Number one is that in order to love, you must let go of all past hurts and pains. Our baggage takes up room and hinders our ability to welcome the perfect love.

The baggage comes from past love relationships, relationships with family, and past lives. It amazes me that some people with the most issues in love are the ones with the least amount of dating experience. Those past pains have prevented them from diving into love.

Our wounds are emotional responses and not part of our true selves. We must be gentle with ourselves and let go of those negative feelings.

I have been so lucky in finding love or trying to find love. I let go in order to be open for the next experience. I don't mind getting hurt because I am confidant that I will be fine no matter what happens. I will always have my true self and am ready to give unconditionally.