One thing I appreciate about dating is honing my theories about love every time I try to fall in love, regardless of the actual experience or the outcome.
Over time, I have found universal rules.
Number one is that in order to love, you must let go of all past hurts and pains. Our baggage takes up room and hinders our ability to welcome the perfect love.
The baggage comes from past love relationships, relationships with family, and past lives. It amazes me that some people with the most issues in love are the ones with the least amount of dating experience. Those past pains have prevented them from diving into love.
Our wounds are emotional responses and not part of our true selves. We must be gentle with ourselves and let go of those negative feelings.
I have been so lucky in finding love or trying to find love. I let go in order to be open for the next experience. I don't mind getting hurt because I am confidant that I will be fine no matter what happens. I will always have my true self and am ready to give unconditionally.
Sunday, January 18, 2009
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