Was exchanging with a friend, and she asked if C was a fun relationship or a serious one.
Both!
I finally see that so many potential dating experiences in the past ended abruptly because one or both parties were trying to define the experience.
For the first time, I am willing to take it one day at a time and let the relationship progress.
I am still having fun, so I am trying not to inject all the seriousness that comes with commitment. Just letting it be.
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J3 is still around (via email communications) despite all my efforts to rebuff him. In the latest exchange, we talked about not having expectations. I disagreed with him, believing that expectations are good to have. You can't act too fast in a relationship but things have to move along, or what is the point? Ultimately, I conclude that we're both right, and that there has to be a fine balance between letting things be and come naturaly, and keeping the goal in mind.
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