Pollyanna

Had some people judging me of late, commenting that my cherry outlook may be a front and unhealthy in the long run.

Well, thank you very much Mr. and Ms. Reality-Check!

I suppose it is a bit tiring to hear me always be positive despite everything. All the ups and downs are enough to make one sour.

Rather than avoiding all the bumps in the road, I believe that my optimism is genuine because I have figured out a system to weather every challenge that comes my way.

There isn't one answer, and the number one secret to my positive attitude is acceptance. By understanding that everything has to happen in its own way, I can let go of the worries that come with expectations.

Instead of expecting too much and grappling with disappointments, I continue to prepare myself and arm myself with skills and information.

I can be optimistic because most of my time is filled with learning and creating good habits. So many of my hobbies have served me well because they give me an outlet and foster relationships. I don't dwell much because I don't give negative energy much time or attention.

Cultivating my spiritual practice has been a big help, but it comes down to being myself. I am optimistic because life has been good to me. I can't imagine a life without the disappointments, confusion, or people who drive me crazy. Still, I have figured out a way to manage it all and stay on top.

So, here's to a good 2008 and a even more fabulous 2009!