Thursday, December 25, 2008

addicted to falling in love

Pondered the difference between falling in love and being in love.

Falling in love is the bio-chemical reaction we have to another person. It's completely illogical and scary, but it creates a high better than any drug.

Being in love is the unconditional acceptance of the other person and willingness to stick it out indefinitely.

I fall in love more frequently than most people because I was addicted to the high.

Was.

I am finally ready to find true love and be willing to communicate what I can give to and need to have from a man. I will not settle, but I also welcome the ups and the downs of having a long-lasting relationship.


2009 is going to be a good year, I can already feel it.

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