be the light - part two

Although the breakup of this past week was disappointing because of his cowardliness, I chose to end it on a neutral note and put it behind me. The last conversation was like any other, except without the enthusiasm or making future plans. Neither one of us mentioned the actual breakup, but there was a mutual understanding that he and I will not speak or see each other further.

One concept in my spiritual practice is the flow of energy between people. If you are faced with negative energy, the key is to be grounded and to let it flow through. If you respond to the negative energy, you will attract more of it.

I firmly believe that most people who behave badly is because they were treated badly at one point. They were taught that it's okay to hurt other people, or they suffered and thus learned to lash out as a result. I don't want to contribute to that negative energy and attack the person who caused me pain. (Well, I more than cleared the negative energy by venting to my poor friends and family...)

So this little episode of horror will be on its way, because I want to let go of the negative energy and turn the tides. I want to think positively and remember the good times and look forward to finding the right person.