Wednesday, June 4, 2008

love and marriage

Love and marriage are two very different things.

Sometimes two people who love each other cannot be or stayed married - see my first marriage.

Other times people who don't love each other stay married - see many public figures and their spouses.

Fortunately, most couples I know, especially my parents, are married and in love.

I was struggling with my relationship with C because I love him but am not sure about our potential as a married couple.

Thanks to lots of supportive friends, I was able to vent all my doubts. Once I stopped all the negative thinking, things resolved themselves. I don't know what's going to happen, but I do know that I am in love. Marriage is no longer a major life goal, so why worry about it.

I am happy in this relationship, and that's more than enough.

Life is good.

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